I wish I had been able to attend the
BeHeard forum on Oct. 27, because
reading the article about it made me
realize a lot of my own feelings about
Scripps. The idea of a perceived lack of
community at the college hit home with
me, and I couldn’t help but compare it to
my own high school experience.
After a miserable freshmen year at
my local high school, I attended a strict
and extremely rigorous boarding school
three hours from my home. A big issue
at this boarding school, although never
formally addressed by Student Council
or the Residence Life department, was
the collapse of the community on the
weekends, when over half the campus
elected to go home and nothing could get
them to stay. Students claimed weekends
on campus were “boring,” there was
“nothing to do” and cafeteria food on
weekends was insufferably bad (the last
claim was unfortunately very, very true).
This issue was never solved during my
time there, but it’s universally agreed
upon by alumna that the thing that kept
them at my school and gave them the
willpower to survive and graduate was
the school’s community.
You see, since the campus was most
alive on weekdays, the RAs took the
hint and made most of their community
building and student-bonding activities
fall on weeknights. Not a week went by
when my RA wouldn’t host a pancake
or grilled cheese night, and sometimes
she had crafts for us to do, or a movie to
watch for a break from the endless work.
One night, she set up a mini-bar, making
us delicious, nonalcoholic mixed drinks.
Of course, the strength of the community
depended on how committed your RA
was, and some wings were more fun to
live in than others.
As for housing, it wasn’t perfect, but
it lent itself much more to community
building. Each hall housed a balanced
mixture of every grade, and first-years
were neighbors both to other first-years
and upperclassmen. At the beginning of
the year, all of the first-years in a dorm
were introduced to one another, and the
entire hall later participated in a name-
learning icebreaker. Because of this, and
the extensive hall activities surrounding
me, I boasted close friends from every
grade level. As an upperclassman, friends
were generally placed in the same area
of the hall, and if not, they were at least
under the same roof, if that was what
they desired.
Because of this experience, living at
Scripps thus far has frustrated me. I live in
a secluded hall of first-years, some of whos
name I don’t even know—we were never
formally introduced. The upperclassmen?
I’ve never seen most of them, because,
again, we were never introduced, and
they have no reason to come down to
the “freshman ghetto.” While there have
been RA-sponsored events, it hasn’t been
to the extent where I feel welcome and
at home in my dorm. How does Scripps
expect us to build a community and
make friends when we aren’t so much
as introduced to our neighbors? How
are we supposed to seek help from and
bond with our upperclassmen when we’re
hidden from them in a dark corner at the
end of the hall?
My high school was far from perfect—
it drove me insane while I was a student
there. It’s only as an alum that I’ve realized
how strong the relationships I made there
are. There are certainly things that my
school could stand to learn from Scripps
as well. But I do think that Scripps could
learn from the way my school built
communities—after all, it was the only
reason we survived.
By Katie Evans ‘13
Staff Writer
I wish I had been able to attend the BeHeard forum on Oct. 27, because reading the article about it made me realize a lot of my own feelings about Scripps. The idea of a perceived lack of community at the college hit home with me, and I couldn’t help but compare it to my own high school experience. After a miserable freshmen year at my local high school, I attended a strict and extremely rigorous boarding school three hours from my home. A big issue at this boarding school, although never formally addressed by Student Council or the Residence Life department, was the collapse of the community on the weekends, when over half the campus elected to go home and nothing could get them to stay. Students claimed weekends on campus were “boring,” there was “nothing to do” and cafeteria food on weekends was insufferably bad (the last claim was unfortunately very, very true). This issue was never solved during my time there, but it’s universally agreed upon by alumna that the thing that kept them at my school and gave them the willpower to survive and graduate was the school’s community.
You see, since the campus was most alive on weekdays, the RAs took the hint and made most of their community building and student-bonding activities fall on weeknights. Not a week went by when my RA wouldn’t host a pancake or grilled cheese night, and sometimes she had crafts for us to do, or a movie to watch for a break from the endless work. One night, she set up a mini-bar, making us delicious, nonalcoholic mixed drinks.
Of course, the strength of the community depended on how committed your RA was, and some wings were more fun to live in than others.
As for housing, it wasn’t perfect, but it lent itself much more to community building. Each hall housed a balanced mixture of every grade, and first-years were neighbors both to other first-years and upperclassmen. At the beginning of the year, all of the first-years in a dorm were introduced to one another, and the entire hall later participated in a name-learning icebreaker. Because of this, and the extensive hall activities surrounding me, I boasted close friends from every grade level. As an upperclassman, friends were generally placed in the same area of the hall, and if not, they were at least under the same roof, if that was what they desired.
Because of this experience, living at Scripps thus far has frustrated me. I live in a secluded hall of first-years, some of whose names I don’t even know—we were never formally introduced. The upperclassmen? I’ve never seen most of them, because, again, we were never introduced, and they have no reason to come down to the “freshman ghetto.” While there have been RA-sponsored events, it hasn’t been to the extent where I feel welcome and at home in my dorm. How does Scripps expect us to build a community and make friends when we aren’t so much as introduced to our neighbors? How are we supposed to seek help from and bond with our upperclassmen when we’re hidden from them in a dark corner at the end of the hall?
My high school was far from perfect— it drove me insane while I was a student there. It’s only as an alum that I’ve realized how strong the relationships I made there are. There are certainly things that my school could stand to learn from Scripps as well. But I do think that Scripps could learn from the way my school built communities—after all, it was the only reason we survived.
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